DONORS
INTENDED PARENTS
Q: Tell me a little about
those individuals’s that seek egg donors?
A: There is no set characteristic of individual’s
seeking egg donor’s.
They can be of any age or ethnic group. In general, they have been
diagnosed with either ovarian failure (premature menopause), have lost
ovaries for medical reasons or have a family history of a genetic disease.
These women have typically gone through great lengths to try and conceive.
They have grieved the loss of having their own genetic child but greatly
desire the experience to conceive and carry to birth their child. These
women have endured a great deal to come to this path. As you will experience,
they are so thankful for the gift you provide them.
Q: Will being an egg donor
today, effect my fertility in the future?
A: At this time, there is no evidence that these treatments will have
any long-term effects on your future fertility. We would recommend
that you discuss this with your personal OBGYN or with the Fertility
Clinic selected by your intended parents.
Q:Are there any risk’s
in being an egg donor?
A:The primary risk is a condition called Ovarian Hyperstilumlation
Syndrome. This occurs in 1-5 percent of cycles (some reports state
1-3%). This
is characterized by a patient experiencing rather sudden ovarian
enlargement and abdominal fluid retention. Careful monitoring is
done by your Fertility Clinic to avoid this possibility. Also, as
with any procedure, a risk of infection exists, most likely you will
be treated with antibiotics to avoid this.
Q:What are the benefits to me in being an egg donor?
A:There are two benefits to being an egg donor. The greatest benefit
is knowing that you have helped a couple have the family they have
dreamed about. Many women that seek egg donation have spent years
struggling to start their families. It has caused them much sadness
and heartache. The second benefit is that you are compensated for
the generous gift you have provided.
Q: How much time is involved in being an egg donor?
A: The actual cycle will last 2-3 months. The last 2 weeks you will
be required to visit the Fertility clinic frequently for monitoring.
We would suggest you speak with the Fertility clinic regarding their
expectations.
Q: Do I have to meet the intended parents?
A: No, you are not required to meet the intended parents but we find
it helpful for all involved. Both the intended parents and the egg
donor
tend to find comfort in knowing each other. More often then not,
there is connection made be it in common interests, family background,
schooling, hobbies, personality etc. This commonality helps reinforce
the choice being made. All meetings will be facilitated by WCFED
and will last for a set period of time.
Q: Will I have any legal responsibility to the child born to the intended
parents?
A: No, you will have no legal responsibility to the child born to the
intended parents. Furthermore, this will be detailed in the contract
between you and the intended parents.
Q: How do I go about selecting
a donor?
A: Each couple will have different criteria for their intended donor. We recommend
that each couple sit down and determine what is most important characteristics
you want in you future child i.e. education, ethnic background, physical characteristics,
intelligence, talents, athletic ability etc. Once this is defined, it will help
both of you and WCFED focus on finding that donor that meets your criteria.
Q:What are the benefits
of meeting the donor?
A: We find that when the intended parents meet the donor both parties
tend to find comfort in meeting each other. More often then not,
there is a connection made, by all parties, be it in common interests,
family background, schooling, hobbies, personality etc. This commonality
helps reinforce the choice being made.
Q: Who should I tell of my family or friends?
A: For anyone going through fertility treatment, it is extremely important
to have a strong support group around you. In the case of egg donation,
you really need a strong support group as so much of the process
is not in your control. With that being said, you also need to
be cautious as to whom you tell, as there are some people that may have
a negative response to what you are trying to do. This is something
that each couple should discuss in great depth.
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